Quotes

Words I keep coming back to, collected over a decade. A handful of them rotate at the bottom of every page on this site; this is all of them.

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I believe that there is one story in the world, and only one, that has frightened and inspired us, so that we live in a Pearl White serial of continuing thought and wonder. Humans are caught - in their lives, in their thoughts, in their hungers and ambitions, in their avarice and cruelty, and in their kindness and generosity too - in a net of good and evil. I think this is the only story we have and that it occurs on all levels of feeling and intelligence. Virtue and vice were warp and woof of our first consciousness, and they will be the fabric of our last, and this despite any changes we may impose on field and river and mountain, on economy and manners. There is no other story. A man, after he has brushed off the dust and chips of life, will have left only the hard, clean questions: Was it good or was it evil? Have I done well - or ill?
John Steinbeck East of Eden, 1951
…believed art shouldn’t be sequestered in museums. It is important to undo the center of power, travel to see the work in a landscape that held meaning and inspiration for the art and artist, and to recover the intimacy and emotion of pilgrimage, the lure of adventure, even the exhaustion and discomfort of travel. The place, the pilgrimage, the art, all in synthesis, create the sublime tingling we all yearn for whether it be in art, in religion, in love, or in nature.
Kiran Desai The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny, 2025
Patience is not the ability to wait. Patience is to be calm no matter what happens, constantly take action to turn it to positive growth opportunities, and have faith to believe that it will all work out in the end while you are waiting.
Roy T. Bennett The Light in the Heart, 2016
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
Unknown Earliest in Chardin, 1711 a proverb; commonly misattributed to Aristotle
When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: the people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous and surly. They are like this because they can’t tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil, and have recognized that the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own — not of the same blood and birth, but the same mind, and possessing a share of the divine. And so none of them can hurt me. No one can implicate me in ugliness. Nor can I feel angry at my relative, or hate him. We were born to work together like feet, hands and eyes, like the two rows of teeth, upper and lower. To obstruct each other is unnatural. To feel anger at someone, to turn your back on him: these are unnatural.
Marcus Aurelius Meditations 2.1, trans. Gregory Hays (2002), c. 170–180
The second half of your life doesn’t have to look anything like the first half of your life. The first half was bound; the second half is free. Free, free, ever more free. Free from my own distorted thinking, free from any lingering shame and fear and resentments, free from expectations. This is what I look forward to.
Elizabeth Gilbert Oldster Magazine, 2023
To be effective, you have to be inefficient.
Dave Snowden Lean and Agile Summit talk, 2022
You’re not old, you’re not young, you’re in the moment.
Frederic Tuten The New York Times, 2025
I have come to believe that a great teacher is a great artist and that there are as few as there are any other great artists. Teaching might even be the greatest of the arts since the medium is the human mind and spirit.
John Steinbeck “…like captured fireflies”, 1955
Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.
G. Michael Hopf Those Who Remain, 2016
Until you’re saying the stuff that upsets your parents, you’re not really doing your job. You have to cross that threshold.
Emily Witt Via Emily Witt unsourced
Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, it’s unlikely you will step up and take responsibility for making it so. If you assume that there’s no hope, you guarantee that there will be no hope. If you assume that there is an instinct for freedom, there are opportunities to change things, there’s a chance you may contribute to making a better world. The choice is yours.
Noam Chomsky attributed; unsourced
The Magician helps to integrate the unconscious with the conscious, the intuitive with the rational, the inner world of feeling with the outer world of action.
Unknown Unknown source, ch. 2 possibly Carol S. Pearson, or Moore & Gillette on the Magician archetype
We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.
Unknown 1831 in print since 1831; quoted as Talmudic by Anaïs Nin in Seduction of the Minotaur (1961)
We consume culture to enlarge our hearts and minds.
Ralph Waldo Emerson attributed; a paraphrase, unsourced
My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.
Maya Angelou Facebook post, 2011
Don’t ask what it means or what it refers to. Don’t ask what the work is. Rather, see what the work does.
Eva Hesse attributed; unsourced
But it’s a distinction Bertrand Russell made between wise decisions and fortunate decisions. You can make a wise decision that turns out to be unfortunate.
Geoffrey Hinton unsourced
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That’s why it is called the present.
Master Oogway Kung Fu Panda, 2008 a proverb in print since 1993
The secret to life is to have no fear.
Kwame Nkrumah Quoted by Fela Kuti in “Fear Not for Man”, 1977
If you want to create a new culture, throw a better party!
Rick Ingrasci Via Priya Parker commonly misattributed to Buckminster Fuller
I have learned over the years that when one’s mind is made up, this diminishes fear; knowing what must be done does away with fear.
Rosa Parks Quiet Strength, 1994
People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate they can be taught to love.
Nelson Mandela Long Walk to Freedom, 1994
The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places.
Ernest Hemingway A Farewell to Arms, 1929
Intelligent people who are happy are the rarest people I know.
Ernest Hemingway The Garden of Eden, 1986 paraphrased
The kind of conversation I like is one in which you are prepared to emerge a slightly different person.
Theodore Zeldin Conversation, 1998
The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.
Rudyard Kipling Interview, published in Reader’s Digest (1959), 1935 commonly misattributed to Nietzsche
Technical, know-how, skill, craft, art. Involved in production, manufacturing and making. Using good deliberation, understanding, resulting in deliberate desire to be carried out with cleverness.
Aristotle Nicomachean Ethics VI, c. 340 BCE after Aristotle — the second machine, to go with the logic machine: where things can be other than what they are
It was only possible for me to do it, he said, because it was necessary.
Hermann Hesse The Journey to the East, 1932
If you’re going through hell, keep going.
Unknown 1943 in print since 1943
You can pay me to think about your problems.
Thierry Blancpain
I work to keep myself from being bored.
Terry Gilliam HuffPost interview, 2012
Without great solitude, no serious work is possible.
Pablo Picasso ABC interview, 1932
Life imitates Art far more than Art imitates Life.
Oscar Wilde The Decay of Lying, 1889
Orality knits persons into community.
Walter Ong Orality and Literacy, 1982 paraphrased
Sei geduldig gegen alles Ungelöste in deinem Herzen und versuche, die Fragen selbst liebzuhaben, wie verschlossene Stuben und wie Bücher, die in einer sehr fremden Sprache geschrieben sind. Suche jetzt nicht nach den Antworten, die dir nicht gegeben werden können, weil du sie nicht leben könntest. Und es handelt sich darum, alles zu leben. Lebe jetzt die Fragen. Vielleicht lebst du dann allmählich, ohne es zu merken, in die Antwort hinein.
Rainer Maria Rilke Briefe an einen jungen Dichter
This is one more piece of advice I have for you: don’t get impatient. Even if things are so tangled up you can’t do anything, don’t get desperate or blow a fuse and start yanking on one particular thread before it’s ready to come undone. You have to realize it’s going to be a long process and that you’ll work on things slowly, one at a time.
Haruki Murakami Norwegian Wood, 1987
The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.
Leo Tolstoy War and Peace, 1869
Rivers know this: there is no hurry. We shall get there some day.
A. A. Milne The House at Pooh Corner, 1928 paraphrased
It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.
Unknown 1975 in print since 1975; commonly misattributed to Frederick Douglass
Pessimism of the intellect, optimism of the will. In other words, see the world as it really is, warts and all, but still forge ahead with courage, tenacity, persistence, acceptance. The will can overcome many challenges if hope remains alive.
Antonio Gramsci Pessimism of the Intellect, Optimism of the Will, 1920 the phrase itself is Romain Rolland’s, popularized by Gramsci
Successful problem solving requires finding the right solution to the right problem. We fail more often because we solve the wrong problem than because we get the wrong solution to the right problem.
Russell Ackoff Redesigning the Future, 1974
I guess you haven’t realized yet, the adventure isn’t outside in the street. The adventure is at your desk.
John Resko As recalled by Frederic Tuten, The New York Times, 2025
People aren’t really meant to be anything, because we’re not made; we’re […] molded, thwarted, scalded, encouraged by events and encounters.
Rebecca Solnit Recollections of My Nonexistence, 2020
Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage. Truth and courage aren’t always comfortable, but they’re never weakness.
Brené Brown Daring Greatly, 2012
We have two lives; the second begins when we realise we only have one.
Unknown commonly misattributed to Confucius
The small man builds cages for everyone he knows, while the sage, who has to duck his head when the moon is low, keeps dropping keys all night long for the beautiful, rowdy prisoners.
Daniel Ladinsky “Dropping Keys”, The Gift, 1999 presented as Hafez, but Ladinsky’s own composition
The important thing is this: to be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we could become.
Charles Du Bos Approximations, 1922
At my age, in this still hierarchical time, people often ask me if I’m “passing the torch.” I explain that I’m keeping my torch, thank you very much — and I’m using it to light the torches of others. Because only if each of us has a torch will there be enough light.
Gloria Steinem National Press Club speech, 2013
There’s something you find interesting, for a reason hard to explain. It is hard to explain because you have never read it on any page; there you begin. You were made and set here to give voice to this, your own astonishment.
Annie Dillard The Writing Life, 1989
I cannot teach you, only help you to explore yourself, nothing more.
Bruce Lee As Li Tsung in Longstreet, 1971
I am the gap between what I am and what I am not, between what I dream and what life has made of me.
Fernando Pessoa The Book of Disquiet, written 1913–35, 1982
We are the sum of all we have done added to the sum of all that has been done to us.
Robin Hobb The Golden Fool, 2002
Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards.
Søren Kierkegaard Journals, 1843
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
Unknown Earliest in Dean Koontz, Lightning, 1988 commonly misattributed to Lao Tzu
You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.
Buckminster Fuller attributed; unsourced, earliest in print 1995
Advice to my younger investing self: find mentors faster; read more science; study more psychology; network every day; read books, not news; make more VC investments; find paths of progress; seek volatility; cut losses faster; press winners harder; save more; spend less; invest more often.
Mark Yusko Tweet undated
Art is what you can get away with.
Marshall McLuhan The Medium Is the Massage, 1967 popularized by Andy Warhol
Nobody cares. Do it for yourself. Everybody is too busy with their own lives to give a damn about your book, painting, screenplay, etc., especially if you haven’t finished it yet. And the ones who aren’t too busy you don’t want in your life anyway.
Hugh MacLeod Ignore Everybody, ch. 23, 2009
Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.
Michael Pollan “Unhappy Meals”, The New York Times Magazine, 2007
Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.
Ludwig Jacobowski “Leuchtende Tage”, 1899
The man who says it can’t be done shouldn’t interrupt the man who is trying to do it.
Unknown Puck magazine, 1902 earliest known printing; quoted by Massimo Banzi
If you try to make something nobody hates, no one will love it.
Tibor Kalman Wired interview, 1996 paraphrased
Well done is better than well said.
Benjamin Franklin Poor Richard’s Almanack, 1737
A beginning is the time for taking the most delicate care that the balances are correct.
Frank Herbert Dune, 1965
He who gives up freedom for safety deserves neither.
Benjamin Franklin Reply to the Governor, 1755 paraphrased
A boy said to his grandfather, “It feels as though there’s a fight between two vicious wolves raging inside of me. The first wolf is full of anger, self-doubt and feelings of unworthiness. The second is full of hope, empathy and courage.” The grandfather said, “That same fight is going on inside all of us.” The boy thought about it for a minute and then asked, “Well grandfather, which wolf will win?” The old man simply replied, “The one you feed.”
Unknown 1965 a Christian parable, in print since 1965
First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, and then you win.
Nicholas Klein Speech to the Amalgamated Clothing Workers, 1918 commonly misattributed to Gandhi
I allowed the tears which I had been holding back to fall, and I let them flow as they would, making them a pillow for my heart.
Saint Augustine Confessions IX.12, c. 400
We have collectively learned to admire the values of the arts in the special arena of galleries. But their more important application is in the general, daily fabric of our lives.
Alain de Botton How to Reform Capitalism, 2019
If I cannot do great things, I can do small things in a great way.
Martin Luther King, Jr. attributed; unsourced
Make your ego porous. Will is of little importance, complaining is nothing, fame is nothing. Openness, patience, receptivity, solitude is everything.
Rainer Maria Rilke attributed; unsourced
He that can have patience can have what he will.
Benjamin Franklin Poor Richard’s Almanack, 1736
The two hardest tests on the spiritual road are the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage not to be disappointed with what we encounter.
Paulo Coelho Veronika Decides to Die, 1998
Art will remain the most astonishing activity of mankind born out of struggle between wisdom and madness, between dream and reality in our mind.
Magdalena Abakanowicz c. 1993
A brilliant solution to the wrong problem can be worse than no solution at all: solve the correct problem.
Don Norman The Design of Everyday Things, revised edition, 2013
Words ought to be a little wild, for they are the assault of thoughts on the unthinking.
John Maynard Keynes “National Self-Sufficiency”, 1933
The struggle itself towards the heights is enough to fill a man’s heart. One must imagine Sisyphus happy.
Albert Camus The Myth of Sisyphus, 1942
There is a reason, after all, that some people wish to colonize the moon, and others dance before it as before an ancient friend.
James Baldwin No Name in the Street, 1972
Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.
Unknown Earliest in a Budweiser advertisement, 1938 commonly misattributed to Winston Churchill
We start by being made by others, and then we remake ourselves.
Jean-Paul Sartre After Saint Genet, 1952 paraphrased
Kind over nice, outcome over ego, velocity over speed, quality over quantity, effective over efficient, ability over experience, progress over perfection, consistency over intensity, competence over charisma, environment over willpower, correctness over consensus, long-term over the short-term, the right way over the shortcut, avoiding stupidity over seeking brilliance.
Shane Parrish Tweet, 2023
Don’t tell me the story of your past, tell me the story of your future.
Dr. Joe Dispenza unsourced
You got to unionize and find a cause that actually makes sense. Take down the structure but only take down the structures to show the structure how it can be restructured in the first place. Don’t just be taking shit down just to take shit down, you’re just a destroyer. A destroyer without reaffirmation and the rebuilding of an idea that is better than the first that was destroyed in the first place is just a failed attempt at something that doesn’t make sense.
Reggie Watts unsourced
It isn’t normal to know what we want. It is a rare and difficult psychological achievement.
Abraham Maslow Motivation and Personality, 1954
The cure to boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity.
Ellen Parr Reader’s Digest, 1980 commonly misattributed to Dorothy Parker
I’m no longer quite sure what the question is, but I do know that the answer is Yes.
Leonard Bernstein The Unanswered Question, Norton Lectures, 1973
You can’t think your way into right action, but you can act your way into right thinking.
Unknown 1930 in print since 1930; commonly attributed to Bill Wilson
There is nothing good or bad but thinking makes it so.
William Shakespeare Hamlet II.ii, c. 1600
Love is metaphysical gravity.
Buckminster Fuller Critical Path, 1981
Assuming the worst in others, we show our worst.
Judge Timothy Walmsley Ahmaud Arbery sentencing, 2022
I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
Carl W. Buehner 1971 the expanded version is commonly attributed to Maya Angelou
The best things in life aren’t things.
Unknown 1948 in print since 1948; commonly attributed to Art Buchwald
The man who goes alone can start today; but he who travels with another must wait till that other is ready.
Henry David Thoreau Walden, 1854
There are no facts, only interpretations.
Friedrich Nietzsche Notebooks (The Will to Power §481), 1886–87
To forgive is to give up all hope for a better past.
Unknown c. 1990 often called a Buddhist saying, but has no Buddhist source
Art exists because reality is neither real nor significant.
J. G. Ballard unsourced
The approval of the public is to be avoided like the plague. It is absolutely essential to keep the public from entering if one wishes to avoid confusion. I must add that the public must be kept panting in expectation at the gate by a system of challenges and provocations.
André Breton Second Manifesto of Surrealism, 1929
To fight the Empire is to be infected by its derangement. Whoever defeats the Empire becomes the Empire; it proliferates like a virus … thereby it becomes its enemies.
Philip K. Dick VALIS, 1981
Freedom is a possibility only if you’re able to say no.
The Whitest Boy Alive “1517”, Rules, 2009
Life is a tragedy for those who feel and a comedy for those who think.
Horace Walpole Letter to Horace Mann, 1769 commonly misattributed to La Bruyère
When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
Wayne W. Dyer The Power of Intention, 2004 commonly misattributed to Max Planck
The value of an idea lies in the using of it.
Thomas Edison attributed
People overestimate what will happen in a year and underestimate what will happen in a decade.
Bill Gates The Road Ahead, 1996 paraphrased; the idea is older (Amara’s Law)